Permit me to say for every person that is still under 18 to be precised is still under the influence of parents. And there’s no way you are going to extricate from such burden it might seem to you. As it’s definite. Parents will surely rebuke on one thing or the others.
In fact, if you are at fault, the problem is that you have to admit the blame. Even if there’s a lot of provocation that can trample your feelings. Sometimes, you might try to utter a word. Or any outrageous respond which is impolite for any person that is still under a parent’s tutelage.
Today, am going to highlight you some constructive method you can invoke. If at all you are that someone that lead a temper tantrum trait. Or being capricious in nature.
And if there are basic constructive method I can basically tell you, it would be;
1)Accept the blame: No matter how innocnt you are after the slightest provocation hurling at you. the best things to do at that moment is to stand with your poise. your both hands folded at your back waist. And, your head starring appealingly to the ground and listen to their stinging rebuke.
Or are you part of those people that do exchange words with parents? please. if you are parts, it’s advisable to stop. Because Parents are one that has to be extolled and revered. No matter how resentful you might get after being trampled on your feeling or hurling insult at you.
2) Learn how to say “sorry”: I wasn’t surprised when I discovered that many adolescences. Most especially those that are already gained height transcended their parents do treat them condescendingly. Or those that just think they had gained enough knowledge. which their parents haven’t gotten. In fact, the most petrified part of it is those of the lady that had started copulating prematurely. I learned it was somehow difficult for them to admit the correction or sounding admonition parent try to pass.
Please, no matter how accomplished you might have prematurely been. Believe that it’s through your parent interference. If they deprive, there’s no what you are going to do. So would you disappoint them by disdainfully treating them because of the education they strive to give you at any cost? “Sorry” has no embellishment than its simplicity and the heartfelt that follow its pronunciation. So in how innocent you find yourself, ‘sorry’ solves everything.
“Tola, why did you do this?” mother asked. the best thing to say at that moment should be nothing than “Sorry ma”, that word heals every temper at any rate. It better advisable to learn how to utter sorry. it might not be only useful in parent’s apology but outside there, many you will meet and never be tolerant of any slightest provocative.
3) Reminisce the mistake: And after the rebuke or scold you had received from parents. The next to do is to contemplate on how such dreadful thing will not repeat itself. And it can only be done by recalling how it happened and make a proper adjustment. mind you, if adjustment is not taken, there’s no way you are going to extricate from such rebuke. As it might next be done by any of your elders. According to Yoruba adage: “there’s no any good language for bad, bad is bad” and if it has been said by someone and another and making like 3 people admonishing that kind of attitude. then, you have to make a change.
Think about what causes such a serious admonishment from your parents and vow to take an alteration and never repeat it again.
4) Remember you are on the process of becoming a parent: “If I put myself in their shoe, what will I do” that’s what suppose to replete your heart and that should impel you to make a change. you have to remember that you are also in the process to become parents. So if it was your child doing this, what would you do. what you will definitely not admit, there’s no need to be treating people with it.
You are at that time. And it will definitely be gone, the best things that as to be saying most is “I’m sorry, sorry ma” till you leave that interim period. Remember this: “Respect is given to those that are respectful”
NOTE: There’s no blessing for any child that’s treating his parent with much of recalcitrance or in contempt. At any cost, Parents has to be extolled and revered no matter how formidable they are. God bless you.
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