In order to be more ‘attractive.’ We have to love ourselves. Choosing to be positive will allow you to attract the right people into your life — people that make you happy and help you to learn and grow.There are many ways to treat yourself right that can make a visible difference on the outside as well as how wonderful you’ll feel on the inside. It all starts with the way you treat yourself.
1. Treat friendships as a priority
Friends don’t allow friendships grow aside. By nourishing your friendships, you practice the abilities necessary to maintain a happy romantic relationship as well. Friends make you to laugh and smiling is definitely an attractive habit to have
2. Live in the present moment
In a study of attractiveness in a speed-dating situation, women found men more attractive if they measured higher in mindfulness. This appears to only go one way for the sexes as men in the study did not find mindful women to be more attractive.
Mindfulness is peaceful self-awareness. It is the knowledge that in the present moment, everything is just as it should be. Mindfulness is attractive because we shift focus away from anxiety or depression while we focus on the now. Mindful people tend to be more emotionally balanced.
3. Connect with people
We are attracted to people like us, and we also find likeable people attractive. Being likeable is easy; be more interested in hearing about the other person than you are in telling about yourself.
Ask probing questions to understand the background behind people’s actions, preferences, and stories. What is this person like when they are at home alone? What are their fears and dreams?