3. To Feel Seen
Women want to feel seen.
She wants to feel you hearing her, and being aware of her emotional state.
She doesn’t necessarily want you to be affected by her emotional state, but she does want you to be witness to it.
If she is sitting across the room from you and you aren’t picking up on the fact that she is suffering emotionally and on the verge of tears, she will begin to trust you less.
She will think, “If he can’t see that I am hurting now, how long will it take him to figure it out?
Will I be suffering for days or weeks before he is aware of it or cares enough to help me through this?
I guess I have to rely on myself for my own emotional support.”
Life can seem extremely lonely, even within a relationship.
You have to constantly show your partner that at least one person will be witness to her and her journey through life. And that person is you.
4. To Feel Sexually Desired
What’s a major difference between your relationship to your partner and your relationship to everyone else in your life?
You have sex with your partner.
Women need to feel sexually desired.
They want to make sure that you see and appreciate them as a feminine, sexual being.
Praise her body. Feel her and grab her appreciatively.
Remind her that you see her as a sexual being and you will both benefit.